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The Lie of Catching Up – How to Avoid This Writer’s Trap

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Here’s a truth so many writers are afraid to acknowledge: The New Year won’t save you.

Every January brings the same wave of promises.
Fresh starts. Clean slates. Plans that look good on paper.

And for a moment, you believe them.
Not because you’re naïve —
but because you want to believe anything that brings relief.

Relief from the pressure.
Relief from the expectations.
Relief from the quiet panic of wondering, “What if this year is just a replay of last year?”

But once the first rush of hope fades, something familiar shows up…

That still, small voice that says, “You’re already behind.”

It doesn’t shout.
It lingers. And the longer it lingers, the heavier it feels.

That’s where the trouble begins.

Because, when that voice shows up, most writers start chasing the same ghost…

The Myth of Catching Up

You tell yourself you just need one good weekend.
One reset.
One nice-sized block of time where you can “fix it all.”

Once you’re caught up… that’s when you’ll start writing.

But catching up is a mirage.
You walk toward it, and it moves.
You sprint, and it drifts.
You give it everything, and it offers nothing in return.

You fall behind on your writing not because you’re weak or disorganized or somehow flawed.
You fall behind because you were taught to believe writing can begin only once your life is in order.

But, is life ever reliably orderly?
It isn’t.
Not for you.
Not for any writer you admire.
Not for the people who shaped you.

Writing doesn’t wait for order.
It rises out of chaos.
It’s always been that way.

If you wait for calm, you’ll wait your whole career.

So, here’s the real shift — the one that actually pulls writers out of the mud…

You don’t need a plan.
You need a pulse.

A reason to move again.
A reason to start without waiting for perfect conditions that never come.

That’s where micro-momentum comes in.

Not discipline.
Not motivation.
Not a color-coded blueprint of goals.

Just one honest action.

A sentence.
A note.
A messy paragraph written while the coffee goes cold.
Movement so small it doesn’t spook your nervous system.

Once you embrace small actions, things can change fast.

I know a writer who hadn’t posted on LinkedIn for 98 days.
When he came back, he didn’t post a polished essay.
He didn’t pretend to have clarity.
He wrote a 40-word update — almost an apology to himself — a simple “I’m rusty, but here I am.”

It didn’t go viral… it didn’t have to.

It was what he needed to move forward again.

It broke the ice.
One crack.
One breath.
One reminder that the door was still open.

That tiny moment led to a weekly rhythm he’s kept for over six months.

Nothing magical.
Just human.

Here’s what’s really happening when you get to February and feel like you’re still stuck in December…

January gives you symmetry — clean lines, tidy intentions, a sense of “new.”
February gives you reality — interruptions, exhaustion, uneven days, unexpected news, life.

It’s not that you’re behind.
You’re overwhelmed.

And overwhelmed writers don’t need promises and plans and big dreams.
They need a lower bar, less pressure, and a new story to tell themselves.

They need someone to whisper what they already know is true…

Perfection is a trap wearing a productivity suit and calling itself progress.

The longer you wait for the skies to part, the harder it gets to take that first imperfect step.

If you’re waiting for a perfect path,you may never get started.

So, if you want a way back in, here it is — not strategy, not theory, not some system you’ll abandon in a week.

Write From Exactly Where You Are

Not where you were last month.
Not where you think you should be by now.
Not from the version of you that only exists in your imagination.

Right here.
Right now.
Because that’s where real writing starts — not after the storm clears, but in the middle of it.

“I haven’t written in weeks. Here’s what I’m thinking today.”
“I’m embarrassed I ghosted myself.”
“I’m tired, but this is the truth I’m carrying right now.”

When you speak from the place where you’re actually standing, something shifts.

People lean in.
They see themselves in your circumstances.
And just like that, the wall between you and them dissolves.

You want to connect?
Show your scars.

Writing is not performance.
It’s presence.

You want to feel alive?
Write like it matters.
Even if the words shake.
Even if they come out uneven.
Especially then.

Here’s the part nobody teaches…

You come back to writing not when you become disciplined.
You come back when you stop negotiating with the blank page.

You sit down.
You breathe.
You write one true thing.
And something inside says, “Good. You’re back.”

So…

Open a blank document.
Set a 10-minute timer.
Write what is real — not what is right.

Stop when the timer ends.
Don’t fix it.
Don’t hide it.
Don’t turn it into a performance.

Just write.
Then walk away.

That’s enough.
It counts.
It has always counted.

Because momentum doesn’t come from hype.
It comes from laying down a pattern.

And patterns begin with something small enough that your nervous system won’t reject it.

Most writers don’t need more time.
They need an anchor — a ritual, a reminder, a sentence that pulls them back to the chair after life has gone sideways.

For some, it’s a mug.
For others, a time of day.
For others still, a small mantra whispered under their breath: “Today, I write.”

As you look toward 2026, don’t ask the same question that’s haunted you for years: “How can I catch up?”

Instead, ask the question that really matters:

“What can I write today?”

Not tomorrow.
Not when you feel ready.
Not when the chaos settles.

Today.

Something small.
Something honest.
Something alive.

Then close the laptop.
Carry that win into tomorrow.
Let the pattern build like a heartbeat.

You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
You’re not late to your own life.

You are becoming.

If something in this hit you, don’t let it drift away.
Put the first honest sentence you needed to write today in the comments.
That moment of truth is your first step back — and your signal to yourself that, yes, you’re a writer.